Hopita (hopita) wrote,

Little updates before the big post

Hello kittens. Today was ... ya. Nice. Remarkable. Yum.

Tomorrow will be my big, nasty post about the horrible thing that happened to me fifteen years ago. But for today ...

Well, first, a big happy birthday to ratphooey. I hope you're out enjoying Kosher L'Pesach birthday cake with friends, family, and loved ones.

Second, it's no fun trying to transition from vegetarian to vegan and going to a family dinner ... especially a Kosher for Passover one. Let's just say I ate a lot of plain matza. Mmmmm ... so not satisfying. Especially when I knew that I had leftover vegan satay in the fridge from work. Feh.

And finally, I feel I should also update on the mood change in me. I suppose the simple answer is to say that I realized that if unixd0rk doesn't want a girlfriend, then I don't have to be his girlfriend. When I'm with him, I'm happy, and, in the end, that's all that really matters.

So here's me bracing for the snow that's about to fall, and bracing for the anniversary that's coming in a few short hours.
Tags: love, ratphooey, snow, unixd0rk, vegan

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