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Was that a date?

So last night I went out with Hipster's Best Friend. I was at work, minding my own business, when he called ... called him back on my lunch break and we made plans to go out for drinks when I got off of work. The BBT led to Gooski's (we missed the free cigarettes at BBT but got some at Gooski's -- and after 1:00 am, no less -- very random), and finally back to my place, where he spent the night (yes, curled up together, and no, not schtupping).

So, um, was that a date? Did I actually go out on a date with Hipster's Best Friend?

As I told n0thingman, the one thought that reassures me is that, as Hipster's Best Friend, it would be his job, not mine, to tell Hipster if something actually happened between us. Right?

Oh, how delightfully confusing.

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unixd0rk
Feb. 18th, 2005 11:09 pm (UTC)
yeah, i've asked several people to define what a date is with no useful results as of yet.

<shrugs>
hopita
Feb. 18th, 2005 11:48 pm (UTC)
I think in order to be a date, there has to be some degree of mutuality (is that a word?). As in, if I think it's a date, and he thinks it's a date, then it's a date.

A little backstory: H.B.F. broke up with his girlfriend of three years a matter of weeks ago. I was around and he and I became friends during some of the worst of it. This adds to my confusion somewhat ... wondering if he's just looking for a shoulder to cry on, as it were.

At any rate, I drove him to work this morning and haven't heard from him since, so I have no clear sense of what he's thinking. Nor, for that matter, do I have any sense of what, if anything, I should say to Hipster about the evening.
ratphooey
Feb. 18th, 2005 11:48 pm (UTC)
Yep, his job.

Not sure about the date part. If there's another one, then it was.
hopita
Feb. 18th, 2005 11:50 pm (UTC)
Good answer.
hopita
Feb. 19th, 2005 06:23 pm (UTC)
Incidentally, H.B.F. is the boy who refused to join us for Chinese food on Christmas because he felt it was "too traditional."
ratphooey
Feb. 19th, 2005 09:30 pm (UTC)
Ack.

So what did he end up doing that night?
hopita
Feb. 20th, 2005 12:03 am (UTC)
Just randomly hanging out with Hpister, I think.
ratphooey
Feb. 20th, 2005 04:00 am (UTC)
And that's not traditional in any way?

::snort::
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