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"When you pray, move your feet"

Oh dear.

I've committed myself to participating in therealljidol and already I want to bail. See, the very first topic is "When you pray, move your feet." Now, I understand that this is a proverb and that it shouldn't necessarily be taken literally, but ... ugh. I've been single for a little more than two weeks now and one of the great things about no longer dating a religious person is that I can shovel all of that God-type-stuff right out the door. This morning (as an example) I realized that I no longer had to keep my iTunes crammed full of Matisyahu. I am now free to admit that when I hear him say "the eventual building up of the third temple that we're waiting for," my gut reaction is "are you SERIOUS?!? You really take that crap LITERALLY?!?"

So when I pray ... well, I don't. And when I hear other people talk about praying I think that they're mentally ill. It's mythology, people. It's not real. And when you indoctrinate your children to believe that it is real (like I'm sure all those wig-wearing, baby-bearing, Orthodox ladies that I see at Target are busy doing), in my opinion it's a form of child abuse. You're teaching your children to waste their lives by focusing on a bunch of arbitrary and ridiculous rules designed to keep some invisible boogeyman in the sky happy. The fact that otherwise intelligent (I'm looking at you, Dr. Sharon Moalem) people fall prey to this superstition just boggles my mind.

So move your feet, sure. But pray? Thanks, but no thanks.


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Oct. 18th, 2011 04:07 pm (UTC)
Maybe that's what you need to write about.

From poking around the work room post, it looks like this first entry is generally read as an introduction. You're writing right there about yourself, where your head's at, etc. I think you could expand on that and have a very presentable entry post.

I personally have no idea yet. :)

ETA: Bahaha! Sorry for not realizing you had tagged this one as your entry. I'm glad you did.

Edited at 2011-10-18 06:46 pm (UTC)
Oct. 19th, 2011 03:13 am (UTC)
No worries.

So far I'm not sure how I feel about this thing. The bulk of comments seem to be saying that I should change my personal beliefs if I want to win a LJ contest. I'm sticking with it for now, but thus far, I'm not loving it. Also, it's weird to get so many comments from people I don't know (or at least "know").
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Oct. 18th, 2011 04:42 pm (UTC)
I love this post! Probably because I agree with a lot of it!
Oct. 18th, 2011 04:50 pm (UTC)
This will be a controversial entry but I enjoyed reading your perspective. Best wishes.
Oct. 18th, 2011 05:14 pm (UTC)
Sure you don't want to tell us how you really feel?


What I want to know is, why in the world were you dating a religious person when you despise religion and "god-type-stuff"? (That's me being nosy. You don't need to answer if you don't wanna.)
Oct. 18th, 2011 05:34 pm (UTC)
What I want to know is, why in the world were you dating a religious person when you despise religion and "god-type-stuff"? (That's me being nosy. You don't need to answer if you don't wanna.)

It's a long story (as these things often are). One of the big factors was proximity: When we started dating, it was long distance, so the day-to-day stuff like keeping a Kosher kitchen, or worrying about the "appropriateness" of my neckline, weren't really factors until we were already committed to one another. Also, we'd known each other since childhood (it was one of those facebook reunions -- Newsweek coined a term for the phenomenon, which I no longer recall), so I already had (strong, positive) feelings for him from the beginning.

I thought I could live with it but discovered that I was wrong.
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Oct. 18th, 2011 06:04 pm (UTC)
Interesting point of view.
Oct. 18th, 2011 06:19 pm (UTC)
I find there are a LOT of prompts in Idol that are about religion. Since I'm not religious and never have been, I have to adapt them to my life experiences and it usually translates.
Oct. 19th, 2011 08:53 pm (UTC)
As majesticarky says, plenty of Idol prompts are taken from some kind of religion or another. As a non religious person myself, I've always found ways to approach it from a different angle. It's only really as much of a big deal as you want to make it. Clearly this is a hot button for you right now - but then, that makes this entry a good introduction to where you're at at the moment.

I don't think you need to change your beliefs to win this contest (and if you did, would you want to win?) but you're already more than aware that this is a pretty controversial opinion. As someone who had an incredibly secular upbringing, I'm massively thankful not to have to lose any religious hangups, but at the same time, I can't say that I agree with your opinions as you express them here. Still, you are more than entitled to them :o)

Good luck in the contest!
Oct. 18th, 2011 06:49 pm (UTC)
There are a lot of wonderful people in the world who are religious, just as there are a lot of wonderful people in the world who are areligious, and calling people mentally ill or child abusers because your lens is different from theirs seems to be going a bit far. It also seems a bit dismissive of real mental illness, which is something a number of people participating in LJ Idol confront or have confronted on a daily basis.

Remember that there are many people from many walks of life participating in this competition, and that you have just called some of them mentally ill child abusers to their faces. Is that really the way you want to start out?
Oct. 18th, 2011 08:05 pm (UTC)
This. Yes.
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Oct. 18th, 2011 06:49 pm (UTC)
One thing that really helped me the last time I competed in LJ Idol was to bear in mind that there are many ways to interpret a given topic. Obviously the proverb has very strong religious connotations, but that doesn't necessarily mean it's the only lens through which to view it. There are many ways to stay true to a given topic without having to take it in a direction you might be uncomfortable with or hesitant about. Artistic license, I think they call it. And where better to exercise it than in a writing competition? ;]

That said, while your views are certainly controversial I do appreciate that you stayed true to yourself and didn't fall victim to playing into something you don't feel, just in hope of some votes. I'm going to be interested in seeing what you have to say in the weeks to come. I feel like it'll always be honest!
Oct. 18th, 2011 07:20 pm (UTC)
Hi there.

Just a small bit of advice from a veteran:

You have until Monday to put out an entry. While I see your frustration with trying to tackle this topic immediately, you don't have to put up your entry right away. You may find that you're able to produce a work more reflective of your tastes and abilities if you give yourself a little time to develop your ideas.
Oct. 18th, 2011 07:23 pm (UTC)
I like that you took a very different take on the topic and put your views out for us to read and interpret. I think I am probably the polar opposite of you on this specific topic but I like knowing that - it takes all kinds as they say.
Oct. 18th, 2011 08:53 pm (UTC)
Have you checked out atheist blogger Greta Christina? She's awesome.
Oct. 18th, 2011 09:14 pm (UTC)
Mentally ill is pushing it a bit - as long as organised religion doesn't interfere directly with your day to day life, then the best thing to do is respect people's beliefs, no matter how deluded you (and I )may think they may be.
Oct. 19th, 2011 03:04 am (UTC)
I wrote a more detailed response to teaberryblue above, but the gist is that, for me, having spent the last few years in close proximity to Kosher observance, I noticed a disturbing number of similarities to OCD. Counting. Paralysis in the face of things feared to be "unclean" in some way. The belief that performing complex rituals can somehow prevent bad things from happening.
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Oct. 18th, 2011 09:23 pm (UTC)
I can definitely understand having a strong adverse reaction to something because it's being pushed at you. (I still dislike Christmas just because I had too many years of people insisting I had no right to be unhappy and not want to participate in their decking of the halls. ) But even as a non-theist, I have to recognize that religion is such an important part of general life, history, and culture, for so many people, that avoiding all references isn't possible.

It's perfectly acceptable to use the prompt as a starting point to explain why you don't pray. (Though I would not recommend labeling the over 90% of the world's population that is religious as 'mentally ill'. ) But when the topic says nothing to me, I usually play with word association or take just a part of it. It's not like your entry can get rejected because it's not topical enough, so how much the prompt matters really depends on you.
Oct. 18th, 2011 10:23 pm (UTC)
I'm a little unsure what to make of this. It feels more like an initial exploration of and reaction to the prompt than it does a finished entry. Sometimes prompts can be perplexing or even initially infuriating--but sometimes if you take a moment and turn the prompt to look at it from another angle, you can find a way to approach it which fills you with excitement rather than dread.
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Oct. 18th, 2011 11:24 pm (UTC)
Since I'm watching this contest for the first time, and from a dummy/game account, I said I wasn't going to comment on entries and then...well, should have known, because I can never shut up about stuff like this.

The thing, to me, about writing about a really hot button viewpoint is that you're either preaching to the choir or there's the burden of your opinion - not converting your audience, but convincing them to entertain your view as worth their time. You're showing about as much knowledge of the wide, wide range of religious belief and practice in the world as you are of the wide range of mental illnesses. Meanwhile, I have no idea why you'd not consider even slightly deviating from the most traditional interpretation of the quote.

If there's a reason what other people do regarding this topic sparks so much anger in you, maybe you should write about that. Otherwise I'm not really sure why I shouldn't write you off as ableist and bigoted the same way you've written off most of the world as abusive and insane.
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