Hopita (hopita) wrote,
Hopita
hopita

The Love Filter.

Hello all, and welcome to "The Love Filter."

Those of you who've been paying attention may have noticed that I've fallen -- and fallen hard -- for an old friend of mine. It's worth mentioning at this point that he's married, and living a fair distance away.

I've been keeping pretty quiet about things thus far, in part because I didn't want to deal with the criticism, and in part because I've been sort of waiting to tell people until I really knew just what it was I would be telling them.

To make a long story short, I'm starting to feel the urge to talk about it. I recognize, however, that for various reasons, people may not be wanting to hear about it. I've started the list for this filter by removing the people who've already voiced their disapproval. But now I'm asking the rest of you guys:

If it would bother you, for whatever reason, to read about this, now would be a good time to let me know.

Should things really seriously move forward (he leaves his wife, I move to Brooklyn), I'm sure I'll make a more general post. But if you don't want to know about it until it reaches that point, please let me know.

Thanks.

And no hard feelings -- I swear. :)
Tags: aaronbenedict, brooklyn, cheating, divorce, geography, links, love, malky, marriage, relationships
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